Well, I think it's here to stay. My daughter is a high spirited, beautiful on the inside out outside 6 year old. With the introduction of Pre-K, and Kindergarten, she's definitely NOT sheltered anymore and is learning new things from her friends and classmates. She has tested out saying, "Mamma" before, but it never really stuck! I was thankful! I just love hearing, "Mommy." It has such a sweet innocent sound to it, don't you think? At the time, she was young enough for me to tell her that she still needed to call me, "Mommy." But, at 6 years old, and the fact that she's continued to call me, "Mamma", call weekend - I think it may be time for me to recognize that my little girl is growing up.
(insert tears here)
I just couldn't seem to get past how I really prefer "Mommy" to "Mamma" until I remembered the Bible studying that I'm leading the women through at our church. It's Kay Arthur's, "
Lord, I Want to Know You." In this study, we're learning all about the Old Testament names of God. My own prayer time since this study began, has been deeply enriched - just by knowing my God better! I now know that I can call on my El Elyon when I need to know that He is sovereign, I can cry out to my El Roi, when I need to know that He sees me and all that I'm going through.
I believe that it is a sign of my spiritual maturity when I can call on the many different names of my God. It shows that I'm gaining more of an understanding of who He is and His character as I call on my than, "Dear Jesus" in my prayers. I think it's music to God's ears when I call on His name that is specific to what's going on in my life! He sees that I'm really "getting" who He is!!!
Interesting how this might relate to my daughter's maturing isn't it? So, is it sad that she no longer wants to call me "Mommy" or should I celebrate her growing up and wanting to get to know me on a whole new level?
I wonder how "Mamma" relates differently to her than "Mommy?"
For one, she & I are going to start having a Saturday morning time together - just she & I. Right now, as a grown adult, I talk to my Mom every Saturday morning on the phone. We don't miss this time together! It is WAY TOO precious to us both. I want to start this now with my daughter! I want her to know that a relationship with me can be a precious time for us both as well!
So this Saturday - Jordan & Mamma, are going out for coffee & orange juice!
What about you? If you've gone through this transition of Mommy to Mamma - how did you handle it? Any words of wisdom for us Mothers-of-young-children-growing-up-faster-than-our-hearts-can-handle?