I'm so glad you've stopped by my blog! I am a Women's Minister and a former Pastor's Wife. I love finding God in my regular-everyday-stuff. I struggle with keeping up with the laundry, I love blogging, and my kids are my first line of ministry. I am recently widowed. So God and I are on a brand new journey as I try to find peace and understanding. Please grab a cup of coffee and let's get to know one another as we journey on our faith walk together.

Monday, May 24, 2010

Catch me over here!

Hey Friends!
This is where I'll be this Tuesday morning - if you check this in time - login, register, and come join me!  Besides me, there are a ton of WONDERFUL speakers with GREAT topics.

My session starts @ 9am on Tuesday, May 25th - I can't wait for you to join me here!



Click here:
Women of Passionate Purpose

Come & be a part of getting RENEWED!

Your sis in the faith,
Pen

Thursday, May 20, 2010

6 Years Ago....

On this day 6 years ago I experienced a "first" -  I gave birth to our daughter - Jordan Paige Franklin.  I remember every detail.  My doctor had told me there was no way I could have this baby all on my own.  So he convinced John & I that we needed to schedule a C-Section for Friday, May 21.  This all went down on a Wednesday afternoon.  John & I took some time to pray about it and settled on the fact that the end result is the same - we're having a baby!  So I began to make final arrangements for us to be at the hospital on Friday.  That night as we were going to sleep... my water broke!  And Jordan came into the world all by herself!  OH!  And on her due date no less!!!  Another really special thing about this date - my sister's oldest child was born on May 20th as well (a few years prior).

I'm so proud of my little Jordan Paige!  She continues to amaze us with all that she is learning.  She has the most precious smile and loves unselfishly!  I really could go on and on here - but today instead of being over spiritual - I just wanted to take time to thank my God for the best daughter a Mommy could ever have!  Jordan, it was you who first made me a Mommy, and I couldn't have a better title or honor than that!

We've got quite the weekend planned...
Today she's having a little classroom party!  I'm taking a Cookie Cake with little tiny clappers as prizes for all her classmates.  She's informed me that the class is going to sing a 4 verse Happy Birthday Song and that at the end of the song she gets to pick something from Ms. Groth's Birthday Box!  How exciting!

Then, tomorrow is the last day of Show & Tell - and she's already asked if she can take her birthday present to school!  Then... Saturday is the big party (I so hope it doesn't rain!)!  Grandparents are coming in from Texas and we're having a party at Storyland at City Park.  For those of you not from New Orleans this is a special part of City Park that is a super cool playground built with characters from all the great stories - The Three Little Pigs, Pinocchio, Hansel and Gretal, etc - big slides, cute little houses, etc.  So we'll be playing with 24 other little kindergartners all afternoon!  What great fun!  You're only 6 once right?

Pray that I have the energy to keep up with all of this!  Because then on Sunday morning I'm teaching our ladies about the 4th Beatitude!  Fun full weekend here we come!!!

Monday, May 17, 2010

What did you say?

Well, it's "Birthday Week" at the Franklin house.  Yes, Jordan turns 6 years old this Thursday!  I can hardly believe it!  Not only is it her birthday, but this morning I have a meeting about her Kindergarten Graduation Festivities!  Really?  All in the same week, my oldest child is turning 6 and moving on from all things "little" - or so it seems.  And lest we leave out JP, he is growing up super fast too.  I think it's his language that's really maturing lately.  He seems to be speaking in paragraphs and coming up with amazing thought and logic and expressing them all really well.

If you have children do you remember the days when they were just beginning to speak and it was really hard to understand exactly what they were saying?  If you're like me, you were so excited that they were finally talking and you wanted to hear more, but you were having a little trouble interpreting.  I know this is going to sound strange, but I recently read a verse in the Gospel of John where a group of men, officers if you will, experienced something similar - but from Jesus!

John 7:46 (ESV)
The officers answered, "no one ever spoke like this man."

Now before, I get emails and phone calls about how Jesus NEVER speaks in childish jibberish - let me explain.  Let me give you a little context.  The Pharisees had sent officers to arrest Jesus.  As they went to arrest Him, Jesus spoke of things that were to come.  He talked about how He was going to a place that His disciples could not go, He shared with them that if they would seek Him they would find Him, and so much more.  I would like to think if I was in that crowd, I would be soaking up everything He said.  I would be hanging on to His every word.  I wonder if that's what the Officers saw that day.  I wonder if they too were mesmerized with what He was saying.  I wonder if it was all new information to them and they wanted to hear more - even if they didn't really understand what He was saying.

They returned to the Pharisees without arresting Jesus.  The Pharisees asked them, "Why didn't you bring Him?" (verse 45) Then we see their response in verse 46, "No one ever spoke like this man."  I wonder if they wanted to secretly leave the Pharisees and go back and hear more.  Something they heard that day made them act different.

I loved it when my kids began to speak!  I wanted to hear more.  I would often say, "What did you say?"  And they would repeat it (usually over and over and over again).  I would listen very intently, because I wanted to learn the language of my kids.  I would often have to stop what I was doing and get on their level, look them eyeball to eyeball and listen.  Did you know that the Lord wants to speak to you?  First we have to really listen.  We have to stop what we're doing and listen.  We have to remove the distractions (phones, emails, TV, laundry, etc).  Have you ever noticed that parents know the language of their kids better than anyone else?  It's almost as if they are interpreters for their kids.  Jordan used to call a yellow flower a "lello wowie."  And JP's word for "really" is "dery" - so it's "I dery want it!" It's all so cute!  I know their "language" because I spend time with them.  I've invested the time and energy to learn how they communicate.  I've listened to the words that they use with associated actions.  And as a last resort, I've said, "show me."  As a result, I know how they talk!

Have you spent time learning how the Lord talks?  He TOTALLY will not be offended if you say to Him, "What did you say?"  He wants you to learn His language!  Like my children, He'll say it again - over and over if He has to, for He is a patient God.  He wants you to be able to hear His voice and understand His words.  It's okay to be like the Officers found in John and think, "I've never heard anyone speak like this Man," - just don't stay this way!  In fact, as I read this verse myself, I wrote in my journal, as a reminder, to be aware that God's voice is truly not like any other and that I should be prepared for it to sound strange at times and to not tune Him out only because it's different!  If at first it's hard to understand and you're just not getting it, don't give up!  Hang in there and keep listening.  If you're wondering, did you hear Him right, ask Him, "What did You say?" and He'll keep talking, I promise!  How do I know?  Because He does it with me all the time!

Today, open your Bible.  Read this chapter of John if you want, and then stop and ask the Lord, "What did you say?"  Then... listen!  Sit there quietly and let Him say it until you understand it.  Ask Him to "show you!"  Learn the beautiful language and voice of the Lord that loves you so!  I guarantee you He has wonderful things to tell you that are indeed just for you!  I imagine that when you hear what He has to say, that you too will act like the Officers and change what you normally do for something better.

I love you all dearly!
Your sis in the faith,
Pen

Friday, May 14, 2010

A small clip from my upcoming webinar!


Hey Everyone... Okay I got fancy and played around in GarageBand, iTunes, and iMovie and developed this little clip for my upcoming webinar.

I hope you enjoy it and will register for the online conference! Again - tell me what gets you "frazzled" and I just might send you a FREE ticket to the ENTIRE thing (not just mine!)

Click here for the schedule and more info!

Your sis in the faith,
pen

Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Are you a Frazzled Mom? If so then you could be a winner!!!


Okay folks!  I have been invited to be a guest speaker at an Online Conference!  I'm so excited!  I would like for you to join me "online" on May 25th at 9am!  So grab a cup of coffee and your comfy pjs and let's talk about refreshing our frazzled selves!

Women of Passionate Purpose International is hosting an online retreat on "Renewed Purpose".  I am the very first speaker (YIKES!) for the May 25-27th Conference.  Wanna come?  

I'll be giving a Refresher Course for Frazzled Moms.   
Do you wake up wondering when it’s going to be bedtime again? Do you feel like the schedules and noise have gotten to an all-time high? Does it feel like you probably wouldn’t even be able to recognize a day without drama? If this sounds like your life – not just “a day in the life” – then this seminar is for you! How in the world can we manage to not be frazzled and frustrated Moms. If you want your kids and husband to see you sane and smiling instead of tired and stressed out – then this seminar is for you. I'll be serving up 5 key strategies that can help you bring refreshment to your frazzled life as a Mother – no matter what age your kids are! 

Want to win a FREE ticket?!   

Share with me what frazzles you most about being a Mom and how you manage this frazzledness and you'll be entered to win a FREE ticket to the entire conference!

Click here to see all the other speakers & topics!

Oh!  And don't worry if you can't be there for the exact times... just by registering you can listen to each session later when it's most convenient to you!

I look forward to hearing your Frazzle Stories!

Your sis in the faith,
Pen

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Am I doing enough?

Okay - this is going to be a short and sweet post...

I'm sure I'm like most Moms, wondering if what I'm doing - what I'm teaching - is actually sinking in and making a difference in my children's lives.  I know Jordan and JP are still really young - but I do want to instill within them a desire to read their Bible, to have a heart for God, and to love the Lord with all their heart, soul, mind and strength.

Every night before going to bed, John & I check on both of our precious little ones.  Usually we have to re-adjust their blankets, make sure they have their favorite stuffed animal right beside them, and make sure they aren't going to fall out of the bed during the night.  One night last week, we found Jordan like the photo above - in her bed, her favorite animal (named Boppy - who knows why - that she's had since birth) right beside her and holding her Children's One Year Bible strong within her grip.

John & I read our One Year Bible daily and she hears us talk about what we read that day often.  We LOVE reading our Bible this way and even got my parents hooked on it as well.  My Mom (Grandmother) so strongly believes in this Bible reading plan, that she bought all of the grandkids the children's edition last summer.  Jordan LOVES hers!

Of all of the options on her bookshelf - Goodnight Moon, Dora, Barbie, and all the other classics - this is the one that she choose to read after we tucked her in for the night!  I couldn't have been prouder.  (obviously, since we took a photo of her sleeping)

Just a word of encouragement to Moms everywhere... just when you think you're not doing a good job - know that you are!  In between the fights with her brother, the screaming to get out of her room, the asking for a snack for the gazillionth time - we see moments like this in our children.  And they really do make all the stressful Mom moments fade.

I love all dearly!
Your sis in the faith,
Pen

Sunday, May 9, 2010

The Best Mother's Day EVER!!!

What a wonderful day this has been!  It's not even 5pm yet and I have been totally blessed by my husband and my children and by my God!

I got everything on my list!  (see Saturday's post)  I felt like a new bride-to-be showing off my newly treated wedding ring.  Thanks Babe for allowing me to wear the prettiest ring in all the land - again!

Then, there's nothing like solace to renew & refresh one's spirit.  I had lunch at La Madeleine's and a chai tea latte @ a coffee shop just down the street from my house.  I sat outside and worked on an upcoming seminar where I'll be a guest speaker, read my Bible, prayed, wrote in my journal, played on Facebook, read some pastor wife's blogs and just enjoyed the silence!  It has been absolutely beautiful!  The weather couldn't be more perfect and there is a gently breeze as I type this post. 

All of this is just another reminder that my God gets me!  He knows that I get hot easily - He knows that I don't typically like to "hang out" outside.  But the weather was so wonderful and it was so much quieter outside the cafe than inside - that He made it pleasant just for me!

And I had the smell of roses in my nose instead of other aromas that require Mommy's cleaning (nope - I'm not even going to say the word - for I'm enjoying its absence way too much)!

I hope you all had a wonderful Mother's Day.  If you did - hug your husband and look longingly into his eyes and thank him.  If you didn't have the day you dreamed of - hang in there.  There are good Mother's Days ahead of you.  Hang on to that dream and never let it go!  I bet that it will become reality before you know it.  Let's just say that today... I'm living proof that wonderful Mother's Days do infact exist!